Gajalakshmi Paramasivam
18 November 2017
Missing Persons – People’s Representatives
There is a Tamil saying ‘Kuttram Paarkil Suttram Illai’ / ‘If you find
fault you do not have extended relatives.’ To the extent we can correct wrongs
in those whom we consider to be relatives, so we could travel as one unit –
such fault finding is of positive value. Where we are bound by common belief – this faith quietly cures and supports.
Hence, when the senior in a relationship has truly invested deeply in an issue
– a junior with faith in the senior becomes a natural carrier/heir of that investment. It is for this reason
that the system of paying ‘respect’ to seniors is included in family and
institutional processes. To the extent we seek to inherit the mind of a senior
– we need to have belief. The express pathway to common belief is through
common pain. Like the way we contribute regularly to retirement funds, paying
our respects includes a component that goes towards our investment in this
common belief.
Recently, our daughter said to me that when she was asked by her senior
at the workplace as to how come she (an engineer) was good in understanding finances
she had said that I had taught her. I taught them technically to get the
British certificate at year 10 level. They did it because at that time they
accepted me as their senior. But to my mind – there was a deeper reason why my
daughter was doing well in financial management at that place at this time. I worked
in that institution and developed a Commercially Oriented Budgetary system
which was highly appreciated by the head of finance – Mr Geoff Fardell. The gap
between the relative value of my contribution and the money value I received
developed a new relationship which matured as ownership Energy. Whoever has
faith in me and in that institution will be naturally empowered by that
heritage.
In contrast, I did expressly find fault with the extended relatives at
the University of NSW and hence ‘lost’ them. But this helped me form new
relationships albeit with juniors, as their natural senior. The risk here is
that unless we see each other as Equals – meaning no status hierarchy – we
could get taken over. That is how parents become dependent on their adult
children, especially once the parents retire from work-life. Since my sense of
independence has been strong – I usually completed the relationship at that level
and then moved on. The last of such experience was at the village of Thunaivi
in Northern Sri Lanka. There was detachment pain there also but it left room
for the folks there to make the connection between something going wrong and my
departure. To my mind, the departure is largely physical but the service
continues from my side. One of the guys to whom I ‘sold’ a water-pump at a
highly discounted value – few years ago – acted in breach of the processes
allocated to him. The water-pump broke down and asked me to use our water
through a hose-pipe until he found enough money to buy another water-pump. To
many this may seem to be coincidence. But at a place like that – where people
live close to Nature – people make the connection more easily through independent
manifestations at that time. If at least one side is driven by belief – such
manifestations confirm the need to move on.
Yesterday also we recalled with sadness and some pain that the LTTE (Liberation
Tigers of Tamil Eelam) who killed others claiming that they were traitors – ended up killing Tamil political
leaders who over long periods
invested in true independence through non-violent intellectual pathways. Those who consider for example – the Hon SJV Chelvanayakam as Father of the Tamil
Nation, would not consider LTTE Leader Velupillai Prabhakaran as National
leader of Tamil Eelam. The LTTE ruthlessly killed Tamil Politicians who had
respected Hon SJV Chelvanayakam
– and did so knowing very well that the Politicians had trusted them.
As per Hindustan Times report ‘Court
summons Sri Lanka Army chief over disappearance of 24 Tamils’:
[The Jaffna High Court has asked Army chief
Lieutenant General Mahesh Senanayake along with two other state officials to
appear in court on Saturday.
Judge Ilancheliyan ordered them to
appear in court when a case filed by parents and relatives of the 24 missing
persons was taken up on November 15.
The relatives have claimed that the
24 had gone missing since July 1996 when the security forces had arrested them
in Navatkuly, Jaffna.
Sri Lankan troops and the
Liberation Tigers of Tamil Eelam (LTTE) have faced international condemnation
for alleged human rights violations during the long-drawn conflict.
The United Nations Human Rights
Council (UNHRC) in three successive resolutions has urged for independent
international investigation into alleged abuses blamed on both sides.]
If
at least some of the missing persons were part of the LTTE, then, the parents
have to renounce all credit to the LTTE to become entitled to the support of
the very system against which the LTTE showed their might. If any of the
missing persons are found – then the families of those persons who used the
Court system need to consciously move on to the wider common system or go back
to the local system. Whilst many who ‘thought’ that the LTTE would win power
would have difficulty merging with wider world, as individuals and/or through
community grouping, few may now have the motivation to keep continuing.
Relatives who use the official system need to commit themselves to following
the official system of law and order, independently and/or as per the
leadership of their current leaders.
Talking about missing persons, I did find missing in
the group of Sri Lankans and Australians who met to discuss Reconciliation and
Human Rights issues also – as per Sunday Leader article headed ‘Australia and Sri Lanka discuss
reconciliation and human rights’ – the representatives of the People here
in Australia who become beneficiaries or victims of excessive-enthusiasm for
quick wins by both side Governments. I for one ‘included’ both sides
specifically by sharing the Truth I knew at a time when they needed it. I
therefore conclude that the said meeting is for the purpose of showing
agreement between the governments for their own purposes with little or no
contribution to self-governance by the People – for example how to know the
feelings of Sri Lankans in terms of major changes to the Constitution currently
being considered by the Lankan government. So long as People’s true
contribution is missing from government’s decision making, wars would continue
in the name of ‘freedom’ but not for real independence.